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A play shop in Mumbai
19 February 2017
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On 4th Feb, 2017, kinky collective organised a playshop in Mumbai with Non fetlife people, who were from the feminist and queer community. The kinky collective members present were tentacled_sub Sig JoyWillingly Baby Dyke J.Walker Raj Delhigirl The objective of the playshop was to teach and learn by doing rather then just watching, which is what happens generally in a workshop.
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A Workshop with Mental Health Professionls in Mumbai
19 February 2017
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On 3rd Feb, 2017, kinky collective organised a workshop with mental health care professionals from iCall. iCALL – Initiating Concern for All is a Psychosocial Helpline, which offers counselling services by telephone and email to individuals in psychosocial distress and is an initiative of Tata institute of social sciences.
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First Playshop Organised In Delhi
27 November 2016
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Date: 11th September,2016 Venue: Delhi List of Attendees From Kinky Collective Ts Joy Sig Vagabondkink Dg Number of Participants : 27 As with all stories that have a beginning, this one does too. When, where, and how it began, these are questions for another time. It started with an idea, the seed of which was planted many months ago in the minds of some of the kinky people of Delhi.
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Power Exchange - Core Track,101 - Dynamics of Power Exchange: An Introduction
21 August 2016
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Speaker: Ikonoclast Date: 24th July,2016,Sunday At the entrance we were welcomed by a KC organizer at the registration desk, where there were also cookies and tea, and pictures from the IKC photo exhibition to browse through. We headed indoors, and made ourselves comfortable after selecting a spot to sit, be it a chair, sofa, or the floor.
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If You Have To Get Consent, You Aren't Really In Charge
21 August 2016
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There are plenty of people out there who have no idea that the kink world even has systems for creating and devising consent - all they have is that basic fantasy - "I become someone's total slave and they do these cool things and I love it" - because that's what we hear in some literature and some porn.
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The BDSM workshop by Kinky collective and LABIA
07 August 2016
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Date: 29th May’2016 Venue: Mumbai List of Attendees From Kinky Collective TS JW Sig DG VK The event started with DG giving a brief introduction about Kinky Collective and the activities that the group is involved in, along with the ways to find and follow the Kinky Collective Blog, FB page and the twitter handle. After this all the Members of the Kinky Collective present there introduced themselves.
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Why Eating Street Food Is Like SEX
13 June 2016
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Bhaiya, paanipuri bees ki khila do! My mouth has been sooooo wet the entire day, for so long that I didn't think I'd live to see this evening. The mere sight of those perfect balls makes my taste buds squirm and tongue twitch so agonizingly. Oh, what wouldn't this slut do to have those balls in her mouth right now?
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Claustrophobia..
07 May 2016
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I am a hugely hugely claustrophobic woman. Just the idea of a closed space makes me very uneasy.. He has known about this fear of mine for a long time. I guess he was just looking for an opportunity to make me face my fear head on.And the opportunity came pretty soon.
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The Scent Of Claire
24 April 2016
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It's lovely being a woman and I realized it when I met Claire. I am Claire and what I was before I met Claire... Doesn't matter. Finding Claire was one of the best thing I have done in my life and it will always remain as the best part of me. The person I was before I met Claire is a less interesting, less confident, introvert, regular guy who could easily get lost in a crowd.
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Guilty of Kink
11 April 2016
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I did feel guilty. For a very long time. Then again, I had kinky thoughts very early on and I would have to wait many many years until the internet became accessible. The internet really helped. I found a community and people, who helped me understand what happened and how to do what I loved, with people who loved it being done to them.
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To The Edge..... & Back!! - A LESSON In TRUST
02 April 2016
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He sat in a chair, and pulled her into His lap...facing Him...and slowly caressed her face and her curls...His closeness....His scent....mmmmmm.....she enjoys being in His presence and his ministrations made her purr happily like a cat... Both of them smiling at each other..touching each other...a soft happy relaxed atmosphere...
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Yes, I'm a Kinky Indian Woman. No, It's not hard
19 March 2016
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Let's just agree straight off the bat that I speak from privilege (presumably to the privileged). I, in no way, represent all of my country; even if I have seen a lot of its fucked up, I haven't experienced it first hand. I didn't grow up in a village steeped in caste issues. I didn't exist in an atmosphere where jeans and cell-phone use by women was named the prime cause for rape.
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About The Mistress Or About You
12 March 2016
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The words have not abandoned me               The rhythm is in each heartbeat Every moment I experience the resonance of poetry              … but still, another night passes in unspoken silence.
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Kink and Friendship
05 March 2016
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Friendship, as I understand, is a state of mutual trust and support. It may mean different things to different people, but for me, it was always about being myself with people I call friends. It was a relationship devoid of pretense . But strangely most friends I had at an early age did not come into this category..
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He made me cry...
22 October 2015
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You wouldn't know He is a sadist if you met Him casually somewhere. The first time I had met Him, we had chatted and laughed, I had seen his face light up from the naughty twinkles in his big, beautiful eyes (Oh, those gorgeous eyes...Sigh). But then that was before. Much much before I decided to submit to Him.
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Submission
20 October 2015
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Control A fickle fawn Delicate… Delightful… Daring… Too tight and I’ll break it, The harder it is, The more fragile it is. Too loose, And you don’t have it any more, It’s only a blurred line Like a dissolving illusion In a desert. Control, Can be caring, Can be scary, Can be subtle as the air you breathe And you need To live.
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The Serving Boy
03 September 2015
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How the serving boy gave me his virginity He had shown up to transport me from the airport disheveled. I didn’t expect the wrinkled pink shirt, not with the way he could barely raise his eyes to mine. You would think he would be standing at attention in formal attire- that was my rapidly disappearing delusion. So now everything was in question.
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Maybe things are not meant to be serious after all...
15 June 2015
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When I initially came to know about BDSM, and was fascinated by the concept of domination and submission, I thought that Doms are always meant to be real serious and submissives should always be cowering and in awe of their Doms. That was the impression I got after interacting with many so-called Doms and subs.
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Would I be open about BDSM if it were socially acceptable?
08 September 2014
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Someone asked whether we would be open about BDSM "if it were legal". Well... it isn't just a matter of legality, also of social acceptance. But if BDSM was entirely legal and socially acceptable, if being open about it carried no social consequences, hell yes! I would definitely be open about it.
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The Intoxication of Power Exchange
08 September 2014
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Words are not always compliant but the man at my feet is doing his best, his obedience fueling a reckless urge in my chest. Sometimes I can only breathe not sure what scent is mixed in with his sweat what line delineates the flicker in the back of his eyes right before he drops his gaze to the floor.
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A Short Dress and the Dilemmas
08 September 2014
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Short dresses and I don’t go together. Ever. Period. Enough said. Just like you don’t put two brownies together with whipped cream and cherries between them and sprinkle chocolate sauce on it unless you want it sinful, exactly like that you don’t put me in a short dress unless you want to see an awkward
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Legality of Kink
23 June 2014
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I have often heard from many kinksters that the practice of kink is illegal in India. That if you are found to be practicing BDSM, you can be arrested, or keeping toys like a flogger or handcuffs is not safe and you can be prosecuted. This view is mostly prevalent among the members of the online social networking communities I have interacted with in the last 10 years.
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I Want
23 June 2014
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I want a world in which a kid with kinky desires does not have to think that she or he is a freak, that there is no one else out there like her or him.
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From Online to In-Person… ideas on how to actually meet someone, and how not to...
23 June 2014
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It does happen. People meet each other, and sometimes they even like each other very much! You CAN meet a real person from an online site. Sure, I have had my share of FRUSTRATING online experiences, even as a femdom. But the good news is I have also met some pretty wonderful people. These folks have turned out to be friends, acquaintances, play partners and lovers.
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Being a Dominant is Making Lemonade
23 June 2014
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We initially carry our "dominant ego" a little everywhere, including in places where it has no place being. One of those is reality. To dominate someone, there is a price to pay: we need to submit. To reality. Because reality is there whether you like it or not. You don't dominate it. You accept it or get hurt. Badly. And ridiculed and humiliated. And you lose all the dominance you tried to build over time.
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A Step Out of the Line
23 June 2014
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When you feel that the world that you live in Is not enough, Is just not enough, Then your mind wonders, and wandering, takes the step out of the line, and you think of me.
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A Review Of Fifty Shades Of Grey
23 June 2014
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As sales of Fifty Shades of Grey skyrocketed, many of us in the BDSM (Bondage-Discipline, Domination-Submission, and Sadism-Masochism) community in India, (yes we do exist!) were thrilled. Finally, mainstreaming! Millions of readers would now be exposed to BDSM, understand how amazing it can be to surrender yourself utterly...
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Reminiscing......
23 June 2014
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Reminiscing the pain of the harsh clamps on my nipples followed by your silky soft kisses on my oh so tender clamped nipples Reminiscing the confusion I felt wondering whether it is pain Or pleasure...as I melted at the feel of your delicious suckling... Reminiscing the dread I felt as you removed the clamps
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