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He made me cry…
You wouldn't know He is a sadist if you met Him casually somewhere. The first time I had met Him, we had chatted and laughed, I had seen his face light up from the naughty twinkles in his big, beautiful eyes (Oh, those gorgeous eyes...Sigh). But then that was before....
The Serving Boy
How the serving boy gave me his virginity He had shown up to transport me from the airport disheveled. I didn’t expect the wrinkled pink shirt, not with the way he could barely raise his eyes to mine. You would think he would be standing at attention in formal attire-...
Maybe things are not meant to be serious after all…
When I initially came to know about BDSM, and was fascinated by the concept of domination and submission, I thought that Doms are always meant to be real serious and submissives should always be cowering and in awe of their Doms. That was the impression I got after...
A Short Dress and the Dilemmas
Short dresses and I don’t go together. Ever. Period. Enough said. Just like you don’t put two brownies together with whipped cream and cherries between them and sprinkle chocolate sauce on it unless you want it sinful, exactly like that you don’t put me in a short...
Would I be open about BDSM if it were socially acceptable?
Someone asked whether we would be open about BDSM "if it were legal".Well... it isn't just a matter of legality, also of social acceptance.But if BDSM was entirely legal and socially acceptable, if being open about it carried no social consequences, hell yes! I would...
Being a Dominant is Making Lemonade
We initially carry our "dominant ego" a little everywhere, including in places where it has no place being. One of those is reality.To dominate someone, there is a price to pay: we need to submit. To reality.Because reality is there whether you like it or not. You...
A Review Of Fifty Shades Of Grey
As sales of Fifty Shades of Grey skyrocketed, many of us in the BDSM (Bondage-Discipline, Domination-Submission, and Sadism-Masochism) community in India, (yes we do exist!) were thrilled. Finally, mainstreaming! Millions of readers would now be exposed to BDSM,...
My Friend’s Birthday ‘Vanilla’ Party Turns Kinky
I just wound up a friend’s birthday party in my house. She wanted a theme. So I suggested that we have a slutty party. It was an all women's party, mostly queer women. I thought it was a good chance to wear the leopard pattern corset I had borrowed from S, a friend,...
From Online to In-Person… ideas on how to actually meet someone, and how not to…
It does happen. People meet each other, and sometimes they even like each other very much! You CAN meet a real person from an online site. Sure, I have had my share of FRUSTRATING online experiences, even as a femdom. But the good news is I have also met some pretty...
Legality of Kink
I have often heard from many kinksters that the practice of kink is illegal in India. That if you are found to be practicing BDSM, you can be arrested, or keeping toys like a flogger or handcuffs is not safe and you can be prosecuted. This view is mostly prevalent...